Introduction

Development is the hope the whole community to achieve a better life. The desire for a better life is a concept that includes changes in all aspects of human life, namely economic, social, political, and others. Changes in the economy to be one of the goals of individuals and communities to obtain welfare live better. According to Jonathan M. In Turner (J.dwi-Narwoko Bagong Suyanto, 2004: 267) that the economy will change involve economic regulation concerning social status, general norms, the role and relative stable and interconnected in the vicinity of the collection sources of power production and distribution of goods and services .
Changes in the economic changes will affect the social community (individuals). Understanding of social change in the More (J.dwi-Narwoko Bagong Suyanto, 2004: 342) imply that the social change as an important change in social structures, patterns and behavior of the system in which social interaction, including changes in values, norms and cultural phenomenon. How social change in perspective has three dimensions, namely structural, cultural and interaksional.
One aspect of the changes will affect the other changes. For example, changes in the economy will improve a family’s social family members and can even improve their status. Changes in society can be experienced by her individual, social groups, social institutions (public institutions) to a community of people themselves in that country.
Family is one of the agents of social change in the basic community. In that sense, the family is the social institutions that form the individual characters will be developed as what and how, so that individuals can be meaningful and useful in all the activities and thoughts. However, the importance of the family institution is somewhat less than observed in the life of the community. Sometimes individuals in society form a family without the concept of mature either economic or psychological. Example case phenomena wedding Merriage By Eccident (MBi). So that the functions of the family does not grow well.
Maturity economically can not be generalized. In developing countries because the majority of the population is poor. This is a general problem for the Indonesian people, namely the problems of families with income less able middle to bottom. The problem will influence the economic conditions of families. This will create problems in the areas of health, education, social status and so forth.
Health problems that appear in poor families, of which, malnutrition in children and pregnant women, less than maximum level of development of the brain in thinking, easier disease, and others. This will greatly affect the productivity of work and income for families, young people who berintelektual low. Terganggunya health problems will affect education. If basic needs such as clothing, food and board are still not tercukupi, logically they would shelve the needs of tertiary education.
Low income families do not cause tercukupinya needs of families and lead to poverty. One solution to overcome the family so that families can follow the changes is to increase the productive role of women. Actively the role of women in productive economic sector in the various fields of work was very helpful in changing socio-economic families. Because in this case, the woman (mother or wife) still have the same role with the male as the father of the family related to the welfare of his family and inner birth. If viewed in terms of the law based on the Law. 39/1999 on Human Rights which explicitly mentioned the rights of women on the article 50 paragraph (1) that a wife during the marriage bond has the right and responsibility of the same with her husband on all matters related to perkawinannya life, relationship with the child – children, and the right ownership and management together (Riant Nugroho, 2008: 235).
Role as a form of productive work done by women can be diverse, with the distance to the location of their family pkerjaan different. It’s working with the house of the Local Work (AKL), Inter-working Between Work Area (contract), and the work of the Work of State (WILL), for example, the Manpower Indonesia (TKI), among Labor Women (TKW). Differences in distance of the location is very influential impact on the role of women pelaksaan. Because the presence of women (mothers) in the family of three indicators have an important role. According mosser in (J.dwi Narwoko-Bagong Suyanto, 2004: 325), said that, women not only play a role ganda, but will have a triple role (triple Burden): the role of the reproductive role of the traditional roles associated with the domestic sector, the role productive, the economic role in the public sector, and the role of the social role of the community. Therefore, when women choose to work with the distance of the location of the most remote of the Work of State has the role of women ganda different management.
With work becoming TKW, automatically a member of the family (like mother) of the families concerned should go to work abroad. By doing so, the family left behind will lose one of the role of family members, (such as a woman as wife and mother) can not run because of its role must work.
If the woman chooses to work in a local scope, their salaries low, and can only be basic enough and close the debt. If they choose between the regions, they have a higher salary, but they can not invest, while those in conditions with individual families. Options to be TKW. Requires courage venture capital to be able to meet the needs and welfare of the family, with the distance and remote location that work contract within a minimum of two years can terbayarkan with a salary that can be sufficient for the family berinvetasi and TKW.
Options to be working TKW have advantages and disadvantages in a family. This role required management of both institutions so that the family did not experience a shifting function. Departure from this condition the researchers want to know how the implementation of the role of women in the family ganda TKW?
Women’s Double Role
In understanding the role (Paul B. Horton & Chester L. Hunt, 1984: 118) is a behavior that diharapakan of someone who has status. While the status defined as the position of someone in the group in conjunction with a set of rights and obligations. In the discussion that provides the scope of this family, then someone who has been married women will have a position as a wife, and when the family has increased with the family members of children, the role of women also automatically increases with the mother role.
Women have a role in kiprahnya ganda which has to be done when berkeluarga. As with the triple role Moser (triple Burden), namely the role of reproduction, the role of social and productive roles. Of the three roles of women, the role of housewife as TKW have only productive role only. Where is the mother of a role in the economic, with the location of jobs overseas so they could not play a role in social and reproductive roles.
Implementation of the role of women who are not ganda means that coordination can not be in the form of a new role so ganda can be done without a run by women. For example, by the husband as head of the family. This is considering that the family life is a form of partnership between husband and wife based on gender equality.
The principle of gender equality if the wise disikapi will open opportunities for women to become partners of men in various sectors of life. As partners, between women and men prefer the degree of equality. The kemitrasejajaran can be reviewed from various aspects as follows:
a. The sociological is a condition of harmony between men with women. With this condition, the men can work, realized in daily life in the life of the family.
b. As a value or norm of life of families, kemitrasejajaran men and women is a value system that balanced and consistent. Establish a network be entrenched in every family ba.hkan widely in community life (Elly Tjahya daughter Kumari, 2007: 28).
Kemitrasejajaran the conduct of women and men in the family can influence the social and economic changes in the family.
One illustration in this discussion is about family TKW. Where is the woman (mother) is not so productive role can perform the role gandanya and a role can only be productive only. Implementation of the role of women ganda TKW can only be done with the awareness on gender equality with kemitrasejajaran. So that the family role and function still running well.
Productive role of women as TKW look more effective if the views of the educational background TKW, basik skills and education with the goal of a low wage salary that can be large enough so that the needs of families. Sharing each other’s role and fill in the form of a picture that kesejajaran relations between women and men can walk better. So can gender equality in families.
Gender equality can also mean similarity condition of women and men in opportunities and rights as men, to be able to participate and participate in political activities, legal, cultural, economic, social, cultural, educational, and defense and security and to enjoy equality in the development outcomes (Riant Nugroho, 2008: 60). TKW role of women is one of the forms of participation and the productive role of women in the economic field, which is not directly akan bring changes in the social welfare of the family economy, education and others.
Family socio-economic changes
Social change
Implementation of the role of women ganda akan bring a different impact in each family, this is associated with the system, using the gender equality in the form of a partnership, or by using the role of gender in the context of patriarchal culture. Akan actively take the role of women in social change. Changes include changes in social structure of social, behavioral patterns and social interaction system which include changes of values, norms and cultural phenomenon.
Changes in social structure in the context of family TKW seen in the social structure of the family. For example, with the replacement of the role of women by husbands from reproductive roles that include roles such as the domestic household, caring for children and others, to interact, such as social roles and to help neighbors. If the role of women ganda diperankan also by men, then there will be a change in the structure of social institutions in a family. Because the structure form of the role of the system. If there is a change in the implementation of the role, it means that changes occur in social structure.
Changing family structure in the resulting pattern of behavior in the family. For example, a husband’s habit to manage at home will create a view of children on a different concept. Children can only think that life in the couple must have a good cooperation as both parents. But another case when a father can not be berpean well, the point of view of children will be looked in different things. Changes in family structure in the family TKW pattern also depends on the families that have no relationship and that will be formed in it. In (Soerjono Soekanto, 2004: 42), there are four patterns and two-family pattern of relationships in the family. The pattern size of the family include the family, family organization, family activities, family values. Meanwhile, family relationship patterns include afeksional relationship and the relationship between the subject or family members.
Changes in social structures and behavior patterns will impact on the system of social interaction. If the pattern of behavior is limited to the concept of self, without the intended behavior on others, as with other social interaction. Interaction is a form of behavior that is directed by an individual by individual on the other.

Changes in economic
The role of housewives in the productive role to bring changes in the economic family. Changes in the economic structure of regulation in the economy. Definition of economic regulation by Jonathan M. Turner is in the (J. Narwoko Dwi-Bagong Suyanto, 2004: 267) is a group of social status, general norms and the role of relative stable and interconnected in the vicinity of the collection sources of power production and distribution of goods and services. Regulation was due to the complexity of economic activities in the life of man. One of them is the family institution as a social institution in the smallest community irrespective of economic activity that is the problem of production, distribution and consumption.
The structure of economic regulation in principle vary in the community, ranging from the simple to the most complex. This depends on: the basic elements of the economic process and the factors that determine the structure of economic regulation. In general, the economic structure visible from the gathering, productian, distributing, Servicing. In (J.dwi-Narwoko Bagong Suyanto, 2004: 269) there is a basic element of the process variations that affect the economic structure of economic regulation are:
1. Land
Land is one of the indicators to determine the size of the production process and income owned by the owners or land managers. This is seen from the quality of land, land productivity, and others.
2. Labor
Labor is the economic elements that have a role in the process of production from the amount and quality factors. The amount of labor can be met from family members or from outside the family, while quality can be obtained from ketraampilan, physical condition and experience.
3. Capital
Capital is money or goods, together with other elements of the economy can be developed and produced new goods. Pedesaa community in the environment, the creation of capital is usually done with the property set aside hasi productions of It is to be saved and re-invested or through loans or credit from various sources that there is.
4. Technology
In general, technology is knowledge of the world and the environment that exists in the culture of a society. The position of technology in the life of modern society increasingly important, in addition to already be entrenched in the life of society, technology is a tool that helps to meet the needs of men.
5. Entrepreneurship
Kewiraswastan is a structure and process in community organizations and the increasing integration of the basic elements of the economy in the process. This corresponds denan an independent economic community, both in management and in economic development revenue.
These elements will be very economic changes affecting both the economic structure changes and economic regulation in the life of the family and society. If there is one element of the changes, the economic structure will change.
The discussion above explains that in the family irrespective of TKW not kemitrasejajaran between women and men in family ranah. To be able to run the family well, each family member must be able to run their respective roles well. Have the ideal family is a hope for every individual. However, not all families in the community may be in line with expectations ideal. Therefore, to realize this is not an easy thing. Extracting the potential of women and management roles ganda in family problem-solving as a way families can provide economic impact of positive and negative. Therefore, with this research is expected to take the balance point in the family.